Comfort Zone

A trainer in a training session of young executives, began by drawing a diagram of a stick man standing in the middle of a circle. To make it more interesting, he drew things like a house, a car, and a few friends inside the circle.

He asked the question " Can anyone tell me what this is?"

After a long silence, one guy said " the world?"


The trainer said " That's close, this is your Comfort Zone. Inside your circle you have all the things that are important to you. Your home, your family, your friends, and your job. People feel that inside this circle they are safe from any danger or conflict.


" Can anyone tell me what happens when you step out of this circle?"

A strong silence came over the room.

The same eager guy abruptly announced " You are afraid".


Another guy said " You make mistakes".

The silence continued & the trainer smiled and said " When you make mistakes what can the result be?"

The first guy shouts " You learn something."


" Exactly, you are learning." The trainer turned to the board and drew an arrow pointing from the stick man directly to the outside of the circle. He proceeded to say " When you leave your Comfort Zone you put yourself out there, in front of the world to be in a situations that you are not comfortable with. The end result is that you have learned something that you did not already know, you expand your knowledge to become a better person ."


He turned again to the board and drew a bigger circle around
the original circle, and added a few new things like more friends, a bigger house,more wider exposure etc.


Thus if one stays inside one's Comfort Zone, one will never be able to expand one's horizons and learn. Moving out of one's Comfort Zone makes a bigger circle and a wider horizon .......

Dumbs are not actually dumb

A young boy enters a barber shop and the barber whispers to his
Customer, "This is the dumbest kid in the world. Watch while I prove it to you."

The barber puts a dollar in one hand and two quarters in the other, then
calls the boy over and asks, "Which do you want, son?"
The boy takes the quarters and leaves.
"What did I tell you?" said the barber. "That kid never learns!"

Later, when the customer leaves, he sees the same young boy coming out
of the ice cream store. "Hey, son! May I ask you a question? Why did you
take the quarters instead of the dollar?"


The boy licked his cone and replied,
"Because the day I take the dollar, the game's over!"



Moral: When you think the other is dumb,
you may be making a fool of yourself.

You Are Unique...

Did you know that scientists still haven’t been able to figure out the number of possible combinations of DNA molecules?

The best they’ve been able to do is provide an estimate: 2.4 billion to the power of 10! That’s an incredible number when you consider that the possible combinations of all particles in the universe amount to only 76 to the power of 10!

As you can see, that is vastly less than the possible combinations of DNA, which form your identity. So scientifically speaking, you are unique! There’s no chance of ever finding another person exactly like you on the planet.

And you can also be sure that there never has been – and never will be – two identical human beings in the entire universe.

So why waste time and energy trying to fit into a mould? To be like someone else? You are unique, and thus radically different, no matter what you think and no matter what you do.

The best cabinet makers always work in the same direction as the grain of the wood, never against it. You should do the same. When you have to do something that doesn't fit with your personality, that goes against your 'grain' (against your inner beliefs), you should always feel it and should simply say "no". Stay unique and always refuse to do anything that may destroy your beautiful sense of unity.

‘There is One, the source, that which has no beginning and no end, which created all things, which is good and just, and which illuminates and supports ourlife.”

One Wonderful Message to All...!!

Accept the Pain, Future will be Fruitful Don't feel the work you are doing is pain, because there will be always a reason for that pain or work. So face the pain, for the pain you face, there will be definitely happiness ahead. "Don't ask for a lighter load, but pray god for a stronger back" Don't take any short cut in life.......................................